After one week in Stockholm and the surrounding region, we came back with more questions from friends and fellow travellers than from almost any other destination we’ve covered. Not the usual questions — not “was it expensive?” (yes, and we’ll address that honestly) or “did you see ABBA?” (sort of) — but the more specific ones. What is it actually like? What do Swedes think of tourists? Did the midnight sun keep you awake? What does lagom mean, and is it real?
These are the questions that actually tell you something useful about a place, so we’ll answer them — and then take you through everything we saw, did, and wish we’d done differently across one week in one of Europe’s most quietly extraordinary capital cities.
The Questions We Kept Being Asked
Is Stockholm as expensive as everyone says? Yes. Sweden is genuinely one of the more expensive countries in Europe, and Stockholm is its most expensive city. A beer at a bar costs £7–9. A mid-range dinner for two with wine costs £60–100. A hotel room in a central location starts at around £80–100 for something decent and rises steeply from there.
The saving grace is that Sweden’s food quality is consistently high, the public transport is excellent and reasonably priced on a multi-day pass, the national museums are largely free, and there is one specific eating strategy that transforms the economics of the trip — more on that below.
What are Swedish people actually like? This is the question nobody asks, but everyone wonders. Swedes have a reputation for reserve that is not unfair but is frequently misread as coldness. They are not cold. They are simply not inclined toward performative warmth — the stranger on the street who greets you with excessive enthusiasm is not a social norm in Stockholm. What you get instead is genuine helpfulness when asked, an extraordinary level of English, a deep sense of fairness and social responsibility, and people who are, once you understand the register, among the most decent and reliable you’ll encounter anywhere.
Does the midnight sun keep you awake? It can. In Stockholm in June and July, the sky barely darkens before it begins to lighten again — at 4 am, we walked to the train station in full daylight. People were out cycling, walking, and running. Nobody seemed to find it remarkable. Blackout curtains in your accommodation are not a luxury — they are a necessity. Ask specifically when booking.
What does lagom mean? Lagom is one of those Swedish words that doesn’t translate exactly into English, which is precisely why Swedes are fond of noting that English doesn’t have it. It means approximately “just the right amount” — not too much, not too little. It describes a social philosophy as much as a quantity: the idea that excess in any direction is mildly suspicious, that sufficiency is the goal, that the nail that sticks up gets hammered down. You see it in the architecture (beautiful but never showy), the food portions (generous but not excessive), and the social interaction (warm but not overwhelming). Lagom is Sweden in one word.
Was the ABBA Museum worth it? Honestly? We were a little disappointed — perhaps our expectations were set too high. The museum is well-designed and clearly made with genuine affection for the band’s legacy, but it just felt old and dusty. For confirmed ABBA enthusiasts, it is absolutely worth visiting. For those with a more casual relationship with the music, the entry price (around SEK 250 / £18) may feel steep for what amounts to a very well-curated memorabilia collection. We’d say: if ABBA was the soundtrack to a significant period of your life, go. If not, put the SEK 250 toward a dinner somewhere excellent.
Stockholm: The City Itself
Stockholm is built across 14 islands where Lake Mälaren meets the Baltic Sea, connected by 57 bridges and a metro system whose stations are among the most architecturally interesting in the world — each one individually designed, several carved directly from the bedrock and left deliberately exposed in a way that makes commuting feel like moving through an art installation. The city is extraordinarily beautiful and somewhat aware of it, in the manner of beautiful things that have been beautiful for a long time.
It rewards walking more than almost any other European capital — the distances between the main attractions are manageable, the waterfront views change constantly, and the neighbourhoods shift character block by block in ways that reveal themselves best on foot.
What to See: The Essential Stockholm
Gamla Stan: The Medieval Old Town

Gamla Stan — the old town — is where Stockholm was founded in the 13th century and where its medieval street plan survives almost completely intact. The island is small enough to walk end to end in twenty minutes and dense enough to occupy a full day without effort.

The Royal Palace — one of the largest working royal palaces in the world, with over 600 rooms — dominates the north end of the island. The State Apartments, the Royal Chapel, and the Treasury (containing the Swedish crown jewels) are all open to visitors. The changing of the guard in the outer courtyard happens daily and is more military than ceremonial — the Swedish Armed Forces Lifeguard doesn’t do it for tourist entertainment, which paradoxically makes it more worth watching.
The Cathedral of Stockholm (Storkyrkan), adjacent to the palace, contains a 15th-century wooden sculpture of Saint George and the Dragon that is one of the finest pieces of medieval Scandinavian art in existence. The building itself has been continuously used as a place of worship since the 13th century, and the accumulated layers of architectural history give it a texture that newer churches lack.
Gamla Stan’s main shopping street, Västerlånggatan, runs the length of the island and is lined with shops selling Swedish design, Dala horses, glassware, and the various objects that constitute legitimate Swedish souvenirs versus tourist tat. The difference is usually visible at a glance and confirmed by price.
The narrowest alleyway: Mårten Trotzigs Gränd — 90 centimetres wide at its narrowest point — is technically a street and historically a trading route. It is now primarily a place for photographs proving you can touch both walls simultaneously.
The Swedish Parliament (Riksdag)

The Swedish Parliament building on Helgeandsholmen island — between Gamla Stan and the city centre — runs free guided tours in English during recess periods, and the tour is one of the finest free experiences in Stockholm.
Our guide was a woman whose childhood ambition, she told us without a trace of embarrassment, had been to become Prime Minister of Sweden. Her mother had suggested this might be optimistic. She had become a parliamentary guide instead and channelled what was clearly an undimmed passion for Swedish democracy into ninety minutes of genuinely engaging constitutional history. She knew everything — the committee system, the principle of public access to government documents that has been part of Swedish law since 1766, the architecture of the chamber, the story of every significant vote in the building’s history.
Free. Book through the Riksdag website. One of the unmissable Stockholm experiences that most visitors walk straight past.
The Vasa Museum

The Vasa Museum is the most visited museum in Scandinavia. This status is entirely deserved.
The Vasa was a Swedish warship — the pride of King Gustav II Adolf’s fleet, the most powerful warship in the Baltic — that sank on its maiden voyage in 1628. It capsized in Stockholm harbour, in sight of the watching court and city, approximately 1,300 metres into its first journey. Around 50 people died, including women and children who had been permitted to sail on the inaugural voyage. The ship sank to the harbour bottom where it sat for 333 years, preserved by the cold, brackish water, before being salvaged in 1961 in almost miraculous condition.
The museum was built around the ship. The Vasa fills it completely — 69 metres of 17th-century warship rising five storeys, still bearing much of its original carved decoration and significant traces of its original paint. Standing beneath the hull and looking up at the scale of it — the ornamentation, the gun ports, the sheer ambition of the thing that killed 50 people in its first quarter hour of existence — is one of those museum experiences that stays with you.
Go when it first opens. The Vasa gets busy, and the crowds diminish the experience significantly. First thing in the morning, with the ship largely to yourself, is the best Stockholm museum hour we spent.
The Stockholm Public Library
The Stadsbiblioteket by architect Gunnar Asplund is one of the most extraordinary public buildings in Scandinavia — a circular drum rising from a square base, completed in 1928, with a rotunda reading room that has become one of the most photographed interiors in Sweden.
The rotunda is lined from floor to ceiling on every surface with books arranged by subject — thousands of volumes creating a complete circular room of shelving that is simultaneously a working library and a piece of architecture that would justify a museum entry fee if it charged one. It doesn’t. It is a public library. Walk in, look up, and understand why Asplund is considered one of the most significant architects of the 20th century.
Open to visitors during library hours. Free. Largely unknown to tourists despite being fifteen minutes’ walk from the main sights.
The Heated Statue

On Birger Jarlsgatan in the Östermalm neighbourhood stands a bronze statue of Margret Krook, one of Sweden’s most beloved 20th-century actresses. The statue is life-sized, seated on a bench, and heated to body temperature year-round.
The heating is deliberate. The intention, when the statue was commissioned, was that people sitting beside Margret Krook on the bench would feel warmth from her — the warmth of a person rather than the cold of a monument. In a country where the winters are long and the daylight short, the gesture is not whimsical. It is rather moving, actually.
Sit beside her. She is warm.
The ABBA Museum

On Djurgarden island, the ABBA Museum covers the band’s history from their formation in 1972 through to their final recordings with genuine affection and impressive production values. The centrepiece is a holographic ABBA that you can “perform” with — a somewhat surreal experience that the museum handles with better humour than it might have.
As noted above, we found it slightly below expectations — but expectations for ABBA Museum content are naturally very high when the subject is ABBA. The museum is well worth visiting for confirmed fans. Others may prefer to spend the time at the Vasa, which is five minutes’ walk away and costs a similar amount.
Djurgarden island itself — connected to the city by bridge and ferry — also contains Skansen (the world’s first open-air museum, with historic buildings from across Sweden and a Nordic zoo with wolverines, moose, and brown bears) and Fotografiska (one of Europe’s finest photography museums, open until 11 pm). Allow a full day on the island.
The Best Eating Strategy in Stockholm
Stockholm is expensive for food. We won’t pretend otherwise. But there is one eating strategy that fundamentally changes the economics of a Stockholm trip and which most visitors don’t know about before they arrive.
Dagens lunch — the Swedish daily lunch special — is served at most Swedish restaurants from Monday to Friday, typically between 11 am and 2 pm. For approximately SEK 130–175 (£10–13), you receive bread, a salad bar or starter, a main course, coffee, and sometimes a soft drink. The food is the same kitchen, the same chef, the same ingredients as the evening menu — at roughly a third of the dinner price.
This is how Sweden’s office workers eat lunch every day, which is why the quality is consistently good. A restaurant that served bad Dagens lunch would have no repeat customers by Tuesday.
Our strategy: Dagens lunch as the main meal of the day, lighter eating in the evening — open sandwiches (smörgåsar) from a bakery or supermarket, or a simple café stop. This approach cuts the food budget roughly in half while maintaining quality.
What to eat:
Smörgåsbord — the traditional Swedish buffet of open sandwiches, herring, meatballs, gravlax, and cold cuts — is worth experiencing at least once. Grand Hotel Stockholm serves the definitive version; less expensive versions appear at various Djurgarden restaurants.
Swedish meatballs (köttbullar) — not IKEA’s version, which is a reasonable approximation, but the real thing, in a restaurant that makes them with lingonberry jam and cream sauce from scratch. Every traditional Swedish restaurant serves them. Everyone is slightly different.

Gravlax — raw salmon cured with dill, salt, and sugar, served with mustard sauce and rye bread. One of the great Scandinavian foods, and far better in Stockholm than anywhere outside Scandinavia.

Cinnamon buns (kanelbulle) — Sweden’s national pastry, which the country celebrates with an official Cinnamon Bun Day on 4th October. The version at a proper Stockholm bakery bears the same relationship to a supermarket cinnamon roll as a Michelin-starred dish bears to a microwave meal. Buy one warm in the morning.
For dinner, the Södermalm neighbourhood has the best concentration of good restaurants at prices slightly below the city average — the area around Medborgarplatsen and Nytorget has become Stockholm’s most interesting dining neighbourhood.
The Metro: Stockholm’s Underground Art Gallery
The Stockholm metro system (Tunnelbana) has 100 stations, and 90 of them have been individually decorated by Swedish artists since the 1950s — making it the longest art gallery in the world at approximately 110km.
The most spectacular stations are on the blue line: Kungsträdgården (the ceiling appears to be an archaeological dig, with classical sculptures emerging from the rock), Solna Centrum (a blood-red ceiling of pine forest stretching the length of the platform), and T-Centralen (original 1975 blue floral patterns by Per Olof Ultvedt that cover every surface). Stadion has a rainbow arch over the platform that has been there since 1973.
A single-journey ticket costs SEK 40. A three-day SL travel card costs SEK 350 and covers unlimited metro, bus, tram, and some archipelago ferries. If you’re staying more than two days, the travel card is a significantly better value.
Ride the blue line specifically. It is an art experience that costs the price of a metro ticket.
Stockholm’s Neighbourhoods: Where to Stay and Where to Wander
Gamla Stan — the old town — is the most atmospheric base: medieval streets, the Royal Palace outside your window, Gamla Stan’s restaurants and bars on your doorstep. Accommodation is limited and tends to be pricier for what you get, but the location is unmatched.
Södermalm — the large island south of the city centre — is Stockholm’s most interesting neighbourhood for independent travellers: excellent restaurants, independent shops, the Fotografiska museum, and a genuine local character that the tourist-facing areas of Gamla Stan lack. Hotel Rival (owned by ABBA’s Benny Andersson in a 1930s Art Deco building on Mariatorget square) is the standout accommodation option here.
Östermalm — the elegant neighbourhood northeast of the city centre — is quieter, more residential, and home to the Östermalmshallen (the covered food market, one of the finest in Scandinavia) and the best independent food shopping in the city. More expensive for accommodation, but excellent for food.
Generator Stockholm is our personal recommendation for value — a design-led hostel with both private rooms and dormitories, genuinely good atmosphere, well-located for the city’s main attractions, and the kind of property that attracts travellers who are there to see the city rather than sleep in it. We stayed here twice and would return.
Beyond Stockholm: Two Essential Day Trips
The Stockholm Archipelago
The 30,000 islands of the Stockholm Archipelago begin less than an hour from the city by ferry and contain military fortresses, historic ironworks villages, private islands, and the particular quality of the Scandinavian midnight sun over open water. We’ve covered the archipelago in full in our separate guide — including the fortress that took 13 years to build and closed after one year, and the sword-making village that armed the Swedish military from 1620 to the 19th century.
If you have two days to spare from Stockholm, the archipelago is where to spend them.
The Sörmland Region

An hour south of Stockholm, the Sörmland region offers a completely different Sweden — medieval castles, ancient runestones, the canal system that connects Stockholm to the west coast, and a pace of life that makes the capital feel very far away. Gripsholm Castle above Lake Mälaren, Strängnäs Cathedral with its 14th-century origins, and the landscapes of the Swedish countryside that most Stockholm visitors never reach. Covered in full in our separate Sörmland guide.
Practical Stockholm
Getting There
Stockholm has two airports. Arlanda (ARN) is the main international airport, 40km north of the city — the Arlanda Express train takes 20 minutes to Stockholm Central and costs approximately SEK 300 (£22). The Flygbussarna airport bus takes 45 minutes and costs SEK 120 (£9) — slower but considerably cheaper. Skavsta (NYO), used by Ryanair, is 100km south of the city; a bus transfer takes approximately 80 minutes.
Getting Around
The SL travel card covers metro, buses, trams, and some ferries. Buy a 24-hour (SEK 175), 72-hour (SEK 350), or 7-day (SEK 500) card depending on your stay. Single tickets cost SEK 40 and are poor value if you’re making more than two journeys a day.
Walk wherever possible — Stockholm is a very walkable city, and the neighbourhoods reveal themselves best on foot.
Money
Sweden uses the Swedish Krona (SEK), not the Euro. Credit and debit cards are accepted virtually everywhere — Sweden is one of the most cashless societies in the world. Carrying cash is useful for markets and the occasional older café; it is rarely necessary elsewhere.
When to Visit
June to August — the height of summer, the midnight sun, the archipelago in full life, the outdoor terraces open. The best weather and the busiest period.
April to May — spring, fewer crowds, lower prices, the city waking up. Excellent for museums and walking without the summer tourist numbers.
September to October — autumn colour in the city parks and surrounding countryside, the archipelago quieter and beautiful in a different register.
November to March — cold, dark, and genuinely atmospheric. Stockholm handles winter with the Nordic pragmatism that characterises the country: good lighting, warm interiors, excellent museums, and the general sense that winter is not an obstacle but a season with its own pleasures. Not for everyone. Unmistakably Stockholm.
The Verdict
We now understand the Swedes after one week in their country. Not sure we could handle the winter and the long dark months — we’re confirmed followers of the sun — but the summer Stockholm, the midnight walk to the train station at 4 am in full light, the Parliament guide with her childhood Prime Ministerial ambitions, the Vasa rising five storeys in its purpose-built museum, the warm bronze of Margret Krook on her bench — all of it added up to a city that rewards the attention you bring to it.
Stockholm doesn’t shout. It doesn’t perform. It simply is — beautifully, consistently, on its own terms — and invites you to adjust to its register rather than the other way around.
Lagom, in other words. Just the right amount of everything.
Quick Reference
Don’t miss: Vasa Museum (first thing, before crowds), Riksdag free tour, Gamla Stan, Stockholm Public Library (free, largely unknown to tourists), Djurgarden island (full day), Margret Krook heated statue, blue line metro art stations
Eat: Dagens lunch (Monday–Friday, SEK 130–175, best value in Sweden), kanelbulle (warm, from a bakery), Swedish meatballs, gravlax, smörgåsbord at least once
Drink: Swedish craft beer (excellent and expensive at bars; buy from Systembolaget for evenings), glögg in winter
Stay: Generator Stockholm (value and atmosphere), Hotel Rival (Södermalm, boutique), Grand Hotel (splurge, definitive Stockholm address)
Save money: Dagens lunch for the main meal, free national museums, SL travel card over single tickets, Systembolaget for evening drinks, walk between attractions
Day trips: Stockholm Archipelago (our separate guide), Sörmland region (our separate guide)
Best time: June–August for midnight sun and archipelago; April–May or September for quieter and cheaper
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Like you, I was surprised at the amount that Sweden and Stockholm have to offer. I didn’t get to any of the castles or manor houses though – perhaps next time!
Hi Karen
We look forward to returning and travelling more through this wonderful country.
Cheers
Jane and Duncan
I agree with all of your observations and think Stockholm is a wonderful city for anyone of any age to visit. My sister and I like anything having to do with water so we really enjoyed a waterway cruise of Stockholm and also a boat trip out into the archipelago. It’s easy to understand why Swedes are ranked high in happiness – they have an enviable lifestyle.
Hi Kay
We now understand the Swedes after spending two weeks there. Not sure we could handle the winter and the long nights though, we just enjoy following the sun around.
cheers Jane and Duncan
Yes, I have to saw that when I originally thought of Sweden I thought of Abba, IKEA, Volvo’s, Swedish Meatballs and the Nobel Prize. Your overview was really good and opened my eyes to what else is there. Really interesting to read about the Vasa ship….but how sad.
Hi Janice
Sweden is incredible, VASA is sad, just hope that any new technology comes to light to preserve it.
cheers
Stockholm is one of my favourite European cities – a fantastic place to visit!
Hi Lyn
It is definitely one of ours now, too! Cant wait to go back!
We have been to Stockholm a couple of times now and must agree that the Vasa Museum is a standout. Also the Smörgåsbord at the Grand Hotel is quite an event! Set aside several hours for some serious eating.
we missed each other (stockholm) recently you were on the cruise and you managed to enjoy a day .. loving your journey and thanks for insights and response to our post. Jane & Duncan
Great post that brought back many memories of our visit to Stockholm. It left me yearning to return!
Hi
Could be time to return, what do you think?
cheers Jane and Duncan
We shall have to put Stockholm on our list of places to visit. Lots of info in your post, thanks
Hi George
Thank you for your comments. Definitely, put Stockholm on your list and we hope you enjoy it as much as we did.
Cheers
Jane and Duncan
PS Just signed up for your newsletter cant wait to read it!
Can’t believe this is almost one year ago! Thank god, I have returned several times since 🙂 Stockholm really is my second home <3
We would love to go back! It was a great city to visit!
Thank you really appreciate your comments.
Thanks for your comments